8 Ways to Make Valentine’s Day Special for the Kids

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Ask your toddler, tween or high schooler what pops into their head when they think of Valentine’s day?  You might get answers like: candy, chocolate, balloons, boyfriends, couples, girlfriends, gifts, kissing, stuffed animals, romantic date, holding hands etc….  This is probably what I would have said back in the day.

The media, society and peer pressure are doing a great job at shaping the thoughts of our children in all aspects of life.  As a kid, I don’t ever recall thinking that Valentine’s day is a day to serve and love those who need some extra TLC or a day for me to remember all of the ways God loves me.  Don’t worry I am not opposed to all the wonderful cute things that Valentines entails, in fact, I used some of them here in our Acts of Love V-day Countdown.

Well, the good news is your not too late to impress upon your child’s (it doesn’t matter if they are in highschool) heart another perspective, one that doesn’t scream “your a loser if you don’t have a date tonight.”  I am not saying it’s wrong that kids think Valentines day is a day of romance but it is a one-sided view that definitely needs a good dose of perspective.

In the past 11 years we have incorporated lots of different traditions in hopes that our children would see that Valentines can also be a day of kindness for loved ones, friends and even strangers and not just a romantic holiday. Reminding them ” how wide, how long, how high, and how deep Gods love is for them” Ephesians 3:18.

As you read along, you may think “so cheesy, my junior higher will gag.” Don’t worry if there ever is a time to be cheesy, Valentine’s day is the day!  I used to teach junior high and high school students and I used a sticker chart for them.  When I mentioned it to my colleagues they laughed and thought it would never work because it was too elementary and cheesy, on the contrary they LOVED it and it worked like a charm.

Either way whether you choose this or another means, do remind them that Valentine’s day is a day of love and love is all encompassing. It’s not just limited to the boy or girl you like or the day you get lots of sugar from friends. Well, actually I still think it’s a day I get lots of sugar from my man!

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8 Ways to Make Valentine’s Day Special for the Kids

The last one is for your spouse because they deserve extra special love on this day too!

Valentines Day Acts of Love Coupons

Free Valentine’s Day Print  I framed ours and placed it on our mantle.

Valentine’s Day Scavenger Hunt

Make Valentine treats together. You don’t even have to be a baker for this you can buy frozen cookie dough or purchase already made cookies and use red icing and sprinkles to make hearts. We once made heart kabobs with fruit and marshmallows you can find it here. We also enjoyed making DIY Yummy Conversation hearts go here for the recipe.

Meaningful Valentine’s Day Tradition

Write them each a love note. In the note express specific things that you love about them but make sure not to compliment  like this.  I share here 28 Things Your Family Needs to Hear You Say

Love Notes Game using Bible verses

Printable Love notes for your spouse


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18 Responses to “8 Ways to Make Valentine’s Day Special for the Kids”

  1. January 17, 2012 at 7:51 am #

    These are great!

    I invite you to link up this (or any other Valentine’s Day themed posts) at the Find Some Love Fest on February 1st! 5 blogs, 1 link up!


    • January 17, 2012 at 11:52 am #

      Allison thanks for stopping by I will definitely stop by and check out the fun!

  2. January 18, 2012 at 9:43 am #

    I need to get in the Valentines Day mind set – thanks for the ideas!

    • January 19, 2012 at 6:12 am #

      There is plenty of time but here in cyberspace it feels like its coming upon you b/c of all the V-day activities, decor and craft ideas floating around. Enjoy!

  3. January 19, 2012 at 9:45 am #

    Nice thoughts. I will definitely need to focus my kids on the loving and serving everyone part. I like that.

  4. January 19, 2012 at 11:14 am #

    I love this idea! Would you be willing to link this up to my Valentine Link Party going on now? I’d love to have you! Thanks, Michelle

  5. January 21, 2012 at 8:56 pm #

    I featured your Acts of Love today at Project Queen. Thanks so much for sharing them at the party.


  6. January 23, 2012 at 7:41 am #

    LOVE the coupons – GREAT ideas!!! I shared it with my Facebook readers here: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Living-Life-Intentionally/261252997248957 – Thanks for linking up to TGIF! Have a GREAT week,
    Beth =-)

  7. January 25, 2012 at 7:42 am #

    This is such a fabulous idea!! We are featuring it today at {Junk in their Trunk}. Thanks for linking up!

  8. January 25, 2012 at 1:11 pm #

    This is such a fun idea! You’re being featured at this week’s Taking A Timeout Thursday party. Thanks so much for sharing!

  9. January 26, 2012 at 9:35 pm #

    Love the coupons!! Great way to show love to family!! This is such a cute idea! Thanks for linking up to Strut Your Stuff Saturday! We would love to have you back next Saturday to share more great ideas! -The Sisters

  10. January 30, 2012 at 6:35 am #

    Cute idea! Thanks for sharing at my Valentines Party!

  11. kraftykellie
    February 1, 2012 at 6:59 am #

    Thanks so much! Cute…


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