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Tips for the Family Photo Chaos

family photo tips

Stress, chaos, chasing after kids, bribing, stern (very stern) looks, “you better smile or else”, a

crying baby who could care less about any of your threats and bribes your spouting off.

I only know this because other moms have shared their horror family picture stories, NOT.

Well, I thought it would be great to take some Mother’s day photos with my men.

WHAT.  WAS.  I.  THINKING.

We were able to get a few good ones and the rest, well, were for sheer torture, I mean entertainment.

Behind the Scenes Family Photo Shoot

Tips that I need to remind myself of in the midst of the chaos:

Note, I didn’t say if you have chaos. There will be chaos if you have little ones involved so go into it expecting be happy in the midst of it when you’re family photo session isn’t turning out like mine.

1. Candid shots can be great.

2. Everyone looking at the camera and standing perfectly straight makes for a boring picture. I mean come on who wants to remember stiff robotic looking children.

3. Take lot’s of photos. That way you have more to choose from or more to laugh at.

4. Have treats at hand. Yes, bribe the heck out of them. And if that doesn’t work threaten to ground them until their 20 (just kidding, maybe).  I am all about bribing for the sake of a good picture.

5. Take small breaks if you are going for more than 20 minutes, otherwise you end up with possessed child in the back.

6. Relax, relax, relax. The kids pick up on the tension in your voice (you like how I worded that). I wish I could tell you these pictures were not candid. That my kids were only posing and pretending because they knew I was going to write this article.

7. Invest in a remote control and tripod, but a friend is always a lot more helpful. You won’t strangle your children in front of a friend.

8. Know when to call it quits. It’s not worth it to drag it out. Oh, believe me it’s not worth it.

Stop and thank God!  “Praise you Jesus, we are done and no one got strangled!”

If you’ve ever taken family photos then I know you read this seeing the humor in my words. 🙂 Now go on and take a deep breath and get those pictures done with.

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  1. Stephanie says

    May 13, 2012 at 6:24 pm

    Mari, the collage at the top with all the captions and the final “good picture” is just wonderful. The captions make it absolutely hilarious in my opinion (though I’m sure it wasn’t at the time)! I love it. I just love it.
    I only laugh WITH you (I hope) because I have been there… we do not have tripod and remote, but I have done lots of pics of just our boys, and boy oh boy(s), I get where you’re coming from. Great little piece with great reminders to try to enjoy each moment. Love you!!! and HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 14, 2012 at 7:38 pm

      You’re so sweet!

      Reply
  2. Marissa says

    May 14, 2012 at 5:12 am

    Oh thank you for this! It gave me my first smile and laugh this early monday morning. So very true – family pictures, especially with boys, just never seem to be right.

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 14, 2012 at 7:38 pm

      Marissa,
      Yay, nothing like starting the morning off with a smile!

      Reply
  3. Inspired By Family Mag says

    May 14, 2012 at 7:37 pm

    Yes, we all have those wonderful picture moments. lol

    Reply
  4. Jessica says

    May 15, 2012 at 6:28 am

    Haha great post! Makes me feel better too! Thanks for being so honest and sharing your pics, looks like it was fun actually 🙂 Happy be-lated Mother’s Day!

    Found you via I should be Mopping the Floor’s..linky 🙂

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 16, 2012 at 1:54 pm

      Jessica, there was definitely moments of laughter in between the drama.

      Reply
  5. Christine says

    May 15, 2012 at 12:31 pm

    That’s funny. Years ago we didn’t have any better luck when we had a pro do it. The kids were upset, the (ex) husband yelled at them, as if they are going to stop crying and smile because he is yelling…..but I did get some great photos out of that session!

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 16, 2012 at 1:55 pm

      Christine,
      yea, yelling usually doesn’t help the situation. glad you still were able to get great photos 🙂

      Reply
  6. kjbshirlin says

    May 15, 2012 at 7:43 pm

    Looks like fun! I know stressful too. You have a beautiful family, so celebrate that!
    Karen @ ItsAllGoodHome.com

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 16, 2012 at 1:56 pm

      Karen,
      yes, definitely lots to celebrate when you have kids.

      Reply
  7. Mandy says

    May 17, 2012 at 9:02 am

    Mari, this is so funny! Funny, because this was my life with 4 kids years ago!!! We just had my dtr’s sr. portraits done on Tuesday and I was stressing out over that… I was telling her about how I needed a drink before we used to take family pics ha! I wanted to ground everyone by the time they were done…. oh the memories. Thank you so much for sharing this at Project Queen’s Link Party. It’s nice to know that other mother’s go through the same anguish! 🙂

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 18, 2012 at 8:22 pm

      Mandy, LOL! I guess these moments do serve as great laughing moments in the future!

      Reply
  8. motivatedmommyoftwo says

    May 17, 2012 at 11:29 am

    I love the collage at the top, these pictures are priceless. We are getting ready to do a family shoot next weekend it is going to be interesting to see how it goes. Stopping by from the polka dots on parade link party

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 18, 2012 at 8:23 pm

      Motivated Mommy of Two,
      Enjoy, next weekends shoot! Let us know how it goes. Remember bring lots of bribing ammo!

      Reply
  9. Rachel says

    May 17, 2012 at 9:48 pm

    Hilarious! That would be the best scrapbook page! We can all relate. Maybe that’s why we don’t do family pictures very often.

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 18, 2012 at 8:25 pm

      Rachel,
      We sure don’t do them often but maybe if we did our kids would be used to it. I had a friend who LOVEd taking pics of her babies by the time they were 2 as soon as they would see the camera they would look up and smile.

      Reply
  10. Donna says

    May 18, 2012 at 3:13 am

    Wonderful photo shoot. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      May 18, 2012 at 8:25 pm

      Donna, thanks!

      Reply
  11. What Joy Is Mine says

    May 19, 2012 at 6:57 pm

    Great information. Cute photos! See real and not posed. Thank you for sharing it at WJIM.

    Reply
    • What Joy Is Mine says

      May 19, 2012 at 6:58 pm

      That’s suppose to read “so real…” oops!

      Reply
  12. jaime says

    August 4, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    Thanks for sharing, I love the picture of you and the 2 boys. Pricless. What a great looking family! I will soon have 3 boys too:-) More fun for picture time,lol. FSPDT

    Reply
  13. Becky says

    April 1, 2013 at 8:02 am

    This made me laugh so hard!!! One year for our Christmas picture, we sat for over an hour trying to get a shot. The shot we finally chose was number 174!!! I laughed so hard that we had taken over 100 pictures!! Luckily my sister had a digital camera and just snapped and snapped until finally we were all semi-looking at the camera and halfway smiling:).

    Reply
    • Inspired By Family Mag says

      April 2, 2013 at 7:35 pm

      Becky omgosh that’s hilarious but i am sure we probably had to take as many to get one decent picture not even a good picture.

      Reply

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